The two imperfect complete halves. The Trend The Truth

We have been watching ads since our childhood. They reflect what the trend is. In the ads of Fair and Lovely we saw how gradually the focus on a female being a bride changed to being the career oriented women. In the other sense it shows the fast moving society. Everyone loves their job and the glamorous lifestyle that follows it. And to fulfill that one has to part from the next necessities, called your spouse. Nature balances itself. Well nature did well here too. While the ‘ambitious’ became ‘over ambitious’ the ‘relationship’ changed to ‘long distance relationship’.

One of the main reasons which contribute to these relations is social networking sites. Earlier Orkut and now Facebook, MySpace and many more. Technology has made things really easier. People know someone ,they like each other, they meet and they fall in love and most of the times these people are from very different places, left with no other option than to live apart and use the wonderful products like Skype, Magicjack etc. .

One of the other, although not the major contributor, is the parents love for the NRIs.

Many fathers have this dream to get their daughter married to some guy earning good USD than someone earning the Gandiji’s note. But US laws becoming more stringent than ever prevent the girl from moving to US. Result is again the same. The ‘dreadful’ long distance relationship.

This is also relevant from the innumerable tariff schemes we see everyday everywhere .Thanks to the leading telecom giants and their awesome schemes which helped numerous separated two halves. For that sake the moment one says that they have reliance, the pitiful thought that runs through the mind, “must be having a long distance relationship. RIM to RIM is free on Rs999 voucher!!!”

The trend is truth and not the fad. It’s here to last. The companies will continue to cash on the couple’s emotional gratification. Sometimes with miss u cards and sometime with Rs. 999 voucher of RIM. But as the individual ambitions are increases the price is to be paid. The decision still is ours.

Soul Sync

Sometimes when i am very sad or when i cry due to any reason , after i complete the genuine drama... suddenly a thought comes to my mind.. Am i really sad? Do i want to cry? and the answers comes straight from my soul... It says. Hey ... what a good actor you are.. ?? And i suddenly realize the same,, I feel actually .. like I don't feel like being sad... So why m i behaving in that particular manner.. But then since a moment ago .. i was behaving in a particular way ... and in my longing desire to prove that genuine.. I try to cry again . But this time I fail... because actually this wasn't coming from within. So i just realize that no matter what u do . u would fail if u are not in sync with your soul.be it be a matter as petty as my mood....

dynamics!!!!

Life is good if u identify the good people cumin in your way.. but how much time do u actually need to identify someone..few days.. weeks.. a month... and a year would be more than sufficient.. since you believe yourself so strongly that if you have a good relation with a person for a long time... they just become very much imp for you... but as every thing is dynamic .. y we forget that those parameters of the person which make them good could also change,... and that should not be the big deal.... but we make it..

Expectations also play a very crucial role in this. We get disappointed because we expect a fixed response we got every time...but as i said people change... these responses change too....now the major concern is why people change... they change because every person on dis planet is selfish.... if not all the time.. then at some point or the other..if the interest vested in you is no more attracting ... people's attitude about you changes.....

Sunny Boy...!!!

Wel dis is abt a l'il cute toy....m in love wid... its a small tortoise....or i call it TORTI..(my sunny boy)... it ws Namrata's birthday.. i went to her room to wish her.. nd den dis small stuff caught hold of my eyes...which ws given to her by her sis.. it haz gott succha big,innocent eyes..rightly placed on its, larger dan its body, pendulum head... its got the most charming smile i hav ever seen... oldo m nt a stuff toy freak... bt dis one took my heart....

Fooled by randomness!!!

Wen i ws a kid .. i wanted to be a doc... as i did my 10th i never gave it a second thot as to wat subjects to take... bio ws my obvious chioce... nd i ws pretty happy wid it .. bt here.. as i reachd to the gate way to my dream .. i realizd i landed sumwhr else... i ws doin management...even in my dreams i cud hav never imagined dat i m not a doc at dis point of tym... nd yes m not... the predictions i made abt my lyf never turnd out as dey wer expected.. bt m happy watever happend ws good for me....or i shud say ws far much better than those things which i expected.... Wel very recently i predicted few thngs again .. nd guess wat evn dey dint work out as plannd... bt i  hope that the final outcomes would be better as well...

                              Bt some times i feel .. y dont we jst let the things happen .. y do we try 2 catch hold of thngs which are actually nt in our control...